It's true that women have overtaken the positions within the Church, and Adoro speaks eloquently and truthfully when she say this:
Radical Feminism has penetrated and defiled the Church and has left her violated and bereft. Is there any surprise, then, that men are not engaging in worship? The very violence of the rape of the culture, the destruction of the feminine mystery, the propagation of death in secularity has invaded the Church and has violated us. Can we really be surprised that our Churches which have come to mimic secular "values" are no longer a haven to men or to women, but rather have become temples to the false idols of self-worship?
The whole post is well worth reading, to come away with a fuller understanding of how feminism has changed the way we believe, and affected the way we worship.